Some of the Wisest Personal Beauty Secrets (Part One) - Celebrate Beauty With Admiration Not Envy

Improving or maintaining your personal beauty is not about one single action or one single product. It is a broad spectrum of habits, ideas and possibly the application of beauty products too. Often women may see a movie star, or model, see how beautiful they always look, and wonder "what are their beauty secrets".

Really, beauty secrets are not secret at all, they are usually very public and obvious. The "beauty secrets" below are probably tips you are familiar with, but may benefit from emphasizing again. The first, however, may not have occurred to you:

1. Do Not Envy or Criticize the Beauty of Other Women and Girls

How can you be at the peak of beauty yourself if you show signs of envy when you see an obviously beautiful woman? Jealousy and spite show very clearly in someone's face, and stem from a lack of inner beauty.

One of the sad things about the decline of Western society is the way some modern women think that beauty is a crime against the gender, that only a woman's brain matters. Those who argue in such ways are usually either not attractive, and are out to spite those who are beautiful, or have some sort of neurosis and guilt feeling about their own good looks.

Beauty of any form should be celebrated, just as any talent, business acumen or super intelligence should. In the Philippines, where I now live, women are naturally equal, although in practice the balance of power is with the women. Yet a beautiful girl is appreciated for her beauty probably more by other women than men. While men look on admiringly, embalmed by wishful thinking, the most complimentary remarks will often come from other women; they are relaxed about beauty, and are open about celebrating it. Any beauty is to be admired and cherished, whether it is beautiful flower, bird, work of art or women.

So, to feed your own inner beauty, always be prepared to admire the beauty of another female. We should all, female or male, be able to display our special assets without fear of envy and abuse. That applies to physical beauty as well as brains. After all, the brain is part of the body, just as the eyes, hair, skin and nose that play such an important role in a woman's beauty.

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